1 + 1 = 1


This past September, my wife and I celebrated our 28th wedding anniversary. This spiritual and mystical mystery of “the two becoming one” cannot be better explained than by something that happened at the church we planted and pastored for 9 years. As my wife and I ministered to people there, to families, and specifically to […]


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Soul Speak


Ed Laymance has been a good friend of mine since 1983, but in the past 10 years, he has become a close confidant and invaluable counselor. He has been a great help to my wife and I. Ed has his doctorate in education. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 35 years […]


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How to Have a Happy Marriage—Part II


This blog is published weekly in Live Bold e-zine by the founder/editor Greg Arnold. He changed last week’s title to How to Have a Happy Marriage. The article really seemed to hit a nerve with you guys. The response and social media ripples were big. So why not scratch the itch, as they say? Let’s start […]


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DTS ASAP, OK?


The longer I am married—27 years now—and the more my wife and I minister to couples, the more I realize a glaring point about us as guys and also God’s perfect wisdom—nothing will change us faster into the image of Christ like living in a covenant marriage with a woman. No other human process or […]


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Me?! Crazy? Okay . . .


Well, it happened again, so I think I need to write about it. I believe I see a pattern. This article could be misunderstood in its target, so to be clear, it is not about divorce, but marriage. It is not about condemnation, but clarity. This is more about a mindset that exists in this […]


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